William Lee Phillips – Image for illustrative purposes only (Image credits: Unsplash)
Pocola, Oklahoma – William Lee Phillips, affectionately called “Uncle Phil” by his family, died peacefully on April 25, 2026, at the age of 74 in Pocola Nursing Home. Born in Spiro, Oklahoma, to Ruth Mae Lewis Phillips and Tom Phillips Jr., he lived a life marked by military service, deep faith, and unwavering family devotion. His passing leaves a void in the hearts of those who knew his charismatic spirit and quiet strength.
A Dedicated Soldier and Man of Faith
Phillips proudly served 15 years in the United States Army, embodying discipline and patriotism throughout his tenure. His commitment extended beyond the battlefield into civilian life, where he took on the role of deacon in his church community. For many years, he provided guidance and compassion to fellow congregants, drawing from his profound love for God.
Faith remained the cornerstone of his existence. Phillips often turned to his Bible for solace and shared his belief in Jesus as the path to eternal salvation. Even in his final days, he displayed remarkable tranquility and gratitude, reflecting a lifetime of spiritual grounding.
Family at the Heart of His World
Family meant everything to Phillips, earning him the enduring nickname “Uncle Phil” from his nieces and nephews. He cherished time with his children, siblings, and extended kin, often hosting gatherings filled with laughter and stories. As a young father, he made it a point to introduce his kids to their aunts and uncles, fostering strong generational bonds.
His home in Fort Coffee, Oklahoma, became a haven after his military travels took him across cities, states, and countries. There, alongside his wife and son, he embraced the serenity of rural life. Phillips’ charm and gregarious nature made him a favorite among relatives, always ready with a smile or a tale from his adventures.
Joys in the Simple Things
Beyond service and family, Phillips found delight in everyday pleasures. He relished listening to music, reading his Bible, fishing, and soaking in the outdoors. Socializing ranked high on his list, whether cooking up meals or relaxing at his parents’ home with loved ones he fondly called “the ladies.”
His personality shone through as strong yet approachable – a fighter with a charismatic edge. Friends and family recall his immense capacity for love and his popularity as “the cool uncle.” These traits defined interactions that spanned decades, leaving lasting impressions on all who crossed his path.
Survivors and Those Who Went Before
Phillips leaves behind five children: Shaquendolyn C. Crawford and Antwione Crawford of Fayetteville, Arkansas; Vincent L. Cravens and Carla Cravens of Van Buren, Arkansas; Duawn C. Phillips of Fayetteville; Shameka J. Phillips of Edmond, Oklahoma; and Jeremiah William Lee Phillips and Jess Ware of Muldrow, Oklahoma. Two stepchildren, Kayla Allen in Germany and Skyla Brammer of Pocola, also survive him, along with 12 grandchildren – Tre, Ashlyn, Jaida B., Shakira, Jordan, Anika, Vivianna, Kayleigh, Myles, Maliyah, Miya, and Maddox – and two great-grandchildren, Leilani and Cleo.
His sister Tommye (Tina) L. Grant and Terry Grant of Fort Smith, Arkansas, and twin brother Willie L. Phillips and Angie Phillips of Fort Coffee, Oklahoma, remain to carry his memory forward. Phillips was preceded in death by his wife, Cynthia Phillips; his parents; and 17 siblings. The family expressed deep gratitude to Aunt Tina, Uncle Terry, Uncle Willie, and Aunt Angie for their steadfast support, including visits, meals, and encouragement during his final days.
Memorial Services and Ways to Honor His Legacy
A memorial service will take place on Thursday, May 7, 2026, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at House of Restoration Church. The following day, Friday, May 8, a Celebration of Life will be held at 10:00 a.m. at the same location, officiated by Pastor Tashala Devrow and livestreamed for wider attendance.
The family has covered memorial expenses but welcomes flowers or gifts directed to Lewis Funeral Chapel in Fort Smith. Monetary donations can be arranged by contacting any of Phillips’ children directly. Special thanks go to the chapel for their services, Pastor Tashala Devrow, and the church community, as well as all who offered prayers, calls, and visits in his time of need.
William Lee Phillips’ life exemplified resilience, faith, and familial love – a testament to finding profound joy in service and simplicity that will echo through generations.